Friday, November 30, 2018

Human values should be always given priority

Human values are the most important in any person.We should always care for the disabled or aged people. 
As humans we all have our own values beliefs and attitudes. priority should be given to their needs.
    My friend Malini has a disabled and mentally retarded son. He is fully retarded and cannot perform any activities without anybody's help. Suddenly Government made a rule that above  25 children cannot be given any grant. So they should not be admitted and those who are already admitted should quit. On humanitarian grounds I feel it is completly wrong. Mentally retarded children are aged only in thier bodies but not thier mind. Thier intellectual level remain of a child.
     There is a festival called Karthik punav in Karkala. My friend Malini  was taking her son (disabled) to the festival. But a lady police stopped thier car saying they cannot proceed further.even when she explained to her his condition she would not listen. But then she saw other cars going to that festivals .They were rich and hence allowed.
   Society should change. They should give some consideration to the aged and disabled.
   That does not mean everything is right. A family had two mentally retarded children. Elder one used to some simple tasks while the younger was very retarded. Elder one wet to fetch water from well and when the vessel with water fell to the well he went to take the vessel and acidently fell in to the well. the younger one had no idea that his brother is dead. When we went to their house he told us anna(brother) has fallen in to the well and taken to hospital. He was drinking coffe and was getting ready to go to school he said . He had no idea his brother was dead. After nearly sis months this fellow was married to a poor girl from village. certainly it is wrong for that poor girl.Again after nearly seven eight month I met them in hospital with girl going for pregnancy check up. she was 5 months pregnant. They were certainly taking advantage of her being poor.
  My driver ws diagnised with severe eye problem. He needed surgery and needed 50000 for the surgery.All the people told me since the driver is new just take sombody else. I told them I will help him because eye is the most impotant organ for any person . Since he cannot afford I will help him. He was operated and eye problem got corrected. So money is important but certainly we should help others as much as we can.

Tuesday, November 13, 2018

I WANT TO KEEP SUSHMITHA AS COMFORTABLE AS POSSIBLE FOR THE REST OF HER LIFE

All of Sushmitha"s life what I have done is keep on trying what is best for her . Then at one stage you realise in the process of trying only I have troubled her . She has not gained much. These physiotherapy is important so that she is not stiff. Addition to that standing is necessary for her blood circulation.
       My husband brought home today a person who he claimed to cure Sushmitha by giving Gomuthra(cow Urine). I told that person just because he says I am not ready. I don't want to experiment on her anymore. So that person told I can continue with my medicines. IT is very good. So I told him if it so good then you experiment on my husband because he will listen to whatever anybody says. And I will not experiment on her because she cannot say she doesn't want it .Once he tried some homepathy long back and she had diarrhea. I told him I want to keep her as much comfortable as possible.I firmly said no. I feel I have taken correct decision.Please God help to keep her comfortable all her life. I know she likes to drink coffee or tea. I know she likes if I hold her hand . I know she feels uncomfortable if she urinates and at night sometimes it takes time to change.