Sunday, August 22, 2010

HUSBAND SAYS I HAVE TO ANSWER GOD

Sushmitha again is sleeping heavily. So I cannot give much stimulations. Anitha came from USA and she says there is certainly some change in her. There is some response coming but you cannot gueswsher level of perception. My husband says we are doing much physio so I am not giving her enough rest so I have to answer God. I don't mind answering him but let him first answer my question first. Why is punishing my innocent child? and my husband is not at all spending 5 minutes in a day with the child. She has so much pain in her body and she was moaning a lot 2 days back. I also fear that nursing physiotheraphy all these things are so costly whether I will be able to look after her in the future in the same way we are doing now. Sunila from speech taught me the importance of association and signature. Every person has a different signature. Similarly every person should identify themselves in differnt ways. Like she has a seperate way of touching patients like squeezing their hand and so the patient identifies her and another person can pinch her cheek so that she will know that it is that person. And in association she is thought to associate the spoon with food. First touching her mouth with spoon and giving command to open her mouth. Then giving her food so that when spoon is brought near her mouth she will know that food is coming. And she told me to give Sushmitha small commands like open ur mouth, See here(Illi nodi) which she is already doing and don't do this-like don't bite your teeth.I liked it. From morning I start stimulations and i don't take rest but I get constant scolding from mom if I am late for feed, from my husband for always stimulating her and from Watson sir because he thinks we are not waking her up and not stimulating her. It is becoming very difficult to wake her up these days. She sleeps all the time and my sister says I cannot do much about it.

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